Now he has money?

I haven’t received child support in months. I have heard EVERY excuse in the book as to why I do not have child support. I don’t think $500 a month is a lot. $200 of that is from all the back child support he owes. 

One day Jack decides to call me up to make a proposition. He NOW wants to take our daughter to preschool and wants to take her to one that is clear across town from me. He informed me that he will pay the $350 for the preschool and then all we have to do is go down to the courts to change child support to $150 a month. How nice of him.

He must think I am stupid. Now, he is okay with taking her to daycare/preschool? He doesn’t pay me child support because he doesn’t have money but all of a sudden he has money to pay for this school AND the extra child support? My first question is who is paying for this school. What is the difference between paying me the full $500 or splitting it up? Yeah, that is right… there is no difference. 

This son of a bitch never ceases to amaze me. He is always trying to get out of his obligations and responsibilities. FUCKING AMAZING.

I ask Jack why he wanting her to go to school when he thought it was pointless for her to go to the daycare she was going to. He informs me of how good this school is and he wants her to have the best education possible. Ahhh, what a good father! Finally looking out for his children? HA, probably not. He only looks out for them when there is something in it for him.

Then I asked Jack how he has the money to pay for all of this when he hasn’t been paying child support for months. He just wants the best for his daughter. *tear*

When I asked him who was paying for the school, he said he was. Hahahah no, really, who is paying for this school since you are so adamant about changing the court papers to $150 a month from $500… He  keeps insisting that he wants our daughter to go to this school. Whatever, I tell him that I will think about it. I really won’t think about it but at least it gets him to shut up for the time being.

The next day, I text him to let him know that I will not be taking him up on the offer because of the location and I needed something for 5 days and not just three days out of the week. I also let him know that we can revisit this conversation when she starts kindergarten.

When he answers me, he is pissed and tells me that we need to find her a new daycare because he doesn’t like the one that she is at. Hahahah are you fucking kidding me? You want me to drag her out of her daycare because you don’t like it? What the hell don’t you like about it? You have been there maybe twice. The teachers and the kids LOVE her and you want to take her away from that because you want to be a dick? Yeah, not going to happen.