This is a conversation I had with the new wifey back in December. I really enjoyed this one because of how moronic she sounds.
December 9th, 2009
Me- I already told Curtis, but jo needs to go to her daycare every Friday. There is no taking her to his mom just because it is convenient for him. If she doesn’t go on Friday’s she loses her spot and I still have to pay and I will not pay for a day she did not go.
Whitney- That is something you two need to discuss. I will take her wherever she needs to go. That is great, because I believe I just told you that she needed to go to daycare.
Me- Um, I am well aware that I need to discuss it with him. Hence why I said I was letting you know. Jo not going to school is not and option. Period. Her school was set up before court and I am not going to let her lose her spot because of it.
And if you want me to treat you like the step mom, then act like it. Because I find it funny that it is okay for you to ask me if you can pick her up from me when Curtis should be the one asking and not you. So this can be a nice smooth process o I can be your worse nightmare:) I don’t’ have to put you down as a pickup for Jo’s school and I sure as hell don’t have to drop her off with you.
Whitney- Lindsey, I am her step mom Um actually, you are only the step mom until you are disposed of. and always will be you are only the step mom when you are married to Curtis… you don’t care super special step mom titles from relationship to relationship. And believe me, you won’t have a relationship with my daughter when your time is up. and will do my best to play that role the best I can Good to know. . The decisions and details of her daily life need to be made by you and Curtis No shit? Thank you for clarifying. Thank god you are in the picture to set things straight. Fyi… that isn’t very step momish of you. and I hope you know by now I will do anything that I am required to do and anything I can do as she grows up Great, because it is COURT ORDERED she is to be dropped off at daycare via her father. Thank you for giving me the heads up so I know to talk to Curtis about it later tonight I wasn’t giving you a heads up. I was telling you that you will be dropping her off at daycare.
Me- You are her step mom on technicality because neither of you gave a shit about the girls. So personally, I don’t care if you are her “step mom” or not. Stick around for a few years and I might consider you part of her family. Until then, I don’t give a fuck about you or your family or any special events you have planned with her. And I definitely don’t need you to tell me that I need to talk to Curtis. Last I checked, I wasn’t discussing anything with you, I was telling you. Big diff sweety :)
Whitney- Look Lindsey, I don’t want to fight with you Then why are you still talking? and I don’t care if you like me or not Yeah, I think I said this many of times. Way to be original. Bottom line is I am married to her father Really? and carrying her baby sister What the hell does being pregnant have to do with this conversation?. If you consider me the stepmom or not is irrelevant Actually, it is relevant. I will be in her life and that is not a bad thing It wouldn’t have been a bad thing if you actually knew my daughter BEFORE you married your loser husband. All I said is this morning that I don’t want or care to be involved in the discussions between you and Curtis Only when it will make Curtis pissed at you? . Those are your decisions as her parents Hahah….. I will do whatever I am told to do and support whatever decision seems fit Well via Court Order you are to drop her off at daycare, why are we still discussing this? So the courts said to drop her off, they didn’t specify that it depended on whether or not you deemed the decision right.
Me- Look, Whitney. I don’t care if you want to fight or not. Nor do I care if you are married to Curtis or if you are carrying her baby sister, which I might add was my girl name I picked out to go along with the the pb and j I came up with. Second, I wasn’t discussing anything with you. There is where the miscommunication is. I was telling you. You do not have a say in anything dealing with my daughter and for some reason you construed what I said into think I was actually asking for your input. I wasn’t. I was letting you know. Having a discussion is where we are actively communicating, which we weren’t. I think that is where you got confused. Third, you supporting any decision that is made means shit to me since you have no say and marrying her father or being pregnant does not give you authority to any decisions. So think about that the next time you are the messenger and ask if you can pick up Jo again.
And for the record, I was informing you this morning because I assumed you would be taking her to school. I wasn’t trying to strike up a convo with you or trying to set up a lunch date. I was being courteous. A simple thank you would have been suffice, not your bitchy, catty responses or telling me what I need to do. Thanks.
Whitney- That is what I am saying! No need to text me Um negative, if you are taking her to daycare, you need to know where she goes, not where your husband wants her to go…so why would you? So you hear it from me. It wouldn’t have made a difference would it? Would it made a difference if I called the cops because she wasn’t in daycare? Oh, it would? That would have been psycho and unacceptable of me? Well so is doing whatever the fuck you think is okay to do. Then it doesn’t need to happen anymore. So I want to clarify, you have stipulations on when it is appropriate to be a step mother?
Whitney- Okay. I had no intentions on being a bitch Right. You had every intention….Like I said thank you for telling me You are very welcome….And I am ending this conversation so please stop texting me. Jesus Christ. So you want me to treat you like a step mom but you don't want to play the part? What Jesus Christ has nothing to do with this conversation.
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